VISITING A "SYSTEM" HOUSEHOLD - WITHOUT PROBLEMS! (Quoted from Chap. 5 of "Discipline At School Made Simple" by Allan E. Harrison)
After such glowing System praise as I have previously
set forth (in previous Chapters), most readers will want a verbal peek at
these wonderful techniques in action since verbal action always speaks louder
than just words. Rather than introduce a few examples from my own personal
experience and perhaps embarrass the subjects, I prefer to return to J.J.'s
authoritarian household. We shall wave a magic wand for the necessary
introduction of the System within that family. Nothing shall be changed except
for System implementation, so that you can compare attitudes and their
improvements. Please feel free to refer to Chapter II whenever you can't
recall the difference. Hopefully, nothing will be redundant and boring if
you will look for the improvements.
In The Home
(Again)
Bang! went the bedroom door and J.J. jumped in his chair.
Oh no! he thought. Bruce must be awake, and if he wasn't, he would be now.
In the past his kids had been more trouble than they were worth. Now that
he had started this new Harrison System, he hoped it would change with
time.
At first it had been a real struggle, he reminisced,
between his conscience and his personal desires before actually adopting
the System. He had certainly wanted all of the things he hoped the System
would provide for himself and his family. But on the other hand, he also
had still desired family control. Once his conscience had won, and the System
had become firmly established, the decision was never regretted.
Although extremely doubtful at first, J.J. had allowed
the System to function as it should. Sometimes it had been difficult to restrain
himself from the temptation to jump in and take control. A few times, well,
maybe it was more than that, he remembered now with some shame, he had forgotten
his resolve and over-exercised his authority. Of course, he had been forced
to pay for damages and fines with his home dollar savings. But what a fantastic
improvement this was over the emotional price it cost before. Truthfully,
he had to agree, the program gave him more enforceable control than before.
Possibly the nicest thing about the System was the fact that it wasn't necessary
to personally supervise each child. Instead, all seemed to want
to abide by the home laws.
Four year old Bruce came tearing into the living room,
disturbing his father's reverie and screaming that his brother, James, had
hidden his shoe. Now that J.J. had put the System to work in his household,
he had no intention of ignoring this breach of home law #10. He had only
one Sunday off from work each week and he wanted it quiet. "Bruce, please
come here and sign my 'Expense and Fine' sheet for breaking the law. You
know yelling in the house will cost you $2 as soon as I turn my sheet in
to the Banker at the end of the day. So be careful and don't lose any more
or you may be bankrupt."
As a contrite Bruce headed for the kitchen, J.J. thought
how pleasant life had become under System methods without the big emotional
upheavals of before. Everything was so simple and calm; problems could
disappear with a mere signature on a special piece of paper. Even that small
portion of J.J.'s sadistic nature was satisfied with the penalty extracted,
since the home dollar fine hurt much longer than any spanking and was just
as effective without his presence.
Bruce had hardly reached the kitchen before he was back
at his father's side demanding that something be done about James having
hidden his shoe.
"Vey well," J.J. said calmly, despite the fact that he
was about to lose more minutes of his precious day off, "do you want to sue
him and can you prove your case?"
Bruce nodded vigorously.
"Then please tell James he must return with you to act
in his own defense."
Bruce hurried from the room and returned with his 9 year-old
brother who wore a sheepish grin which told J.J. the lad was guilty. Nonetheless,
instead of saying so, J.J. asked how he wanted to plead - guilty and place
himself upon the mercy of the court and save costs, or not guilty and present
his defense, taking his chances as to the verdict.
James thought only a moment and declared himself
guilty.
"All right!" J.J. said as solemnly as possible. "It is
the judgement of this court that you quickly find Bruces's shoe and give
it to him. Furthermore, that you reimburse him for his unnecessary emotional
strain in the sum of $5 and that you be required to pay Bruce's fine of $2
for screaming which he would not have suffered except for your actions."
"But I didn't make him. . . ."
J.J. cut James off before he could finish, "Oh yes you
did. At least that is the opinion of this court and if you care to appeal
this decision to the Family Council you may register the necessary request
along with the fees to do so."
James shook his head negatively and walked away muttering
about his dwindling Bank Account while his father recorded his judicial decision
on his expense and fine sheet. James knew that a Court Order needed no
authenticating signature because the word of a Judge is respected in any
court case. J.J. returned to his reading of the Sunday paper, grateful once
again for the System's easy methods for achieving domestic tranquility. Bruce
left the room all smilles, hoping James would hide his shoe again tomorrow
morning, but at the same time, knowing that he never would.
Meanwhile, Marcia, J.J.'s wife, discovered during her
usual Sunday morning inspection, that 13 year-ol Wayne's room was messy again,
that 15 year-old Steven was playing his radio too loudly, and that 11 year-old
Susan was quarreling with James about who had the bicycle today. Marcia easily
disposed of the first two irregularities by having each boy sign her expense
and fine sheet beside the particular offense she had written down. The bicycle
argument was quickly and fairly settled by holding a "quickie" auction wherein
Susan outbid her rival and then rode away on the vehicle after signing the
Family Council's rental sheet. My what a change, Marcia thought to herself,
after it was all over. Only last month, before the advent of the System,
these two kids had fought like cats and dogs because of that stupid bike.
In spite of the benefits of the System, Marcia still
couldn't get over her fear of her husband's loud voice calling her from some
other part of the house. In the past this had always meant big trouble from
something the kids had or hadn't done. Even now she couldn't surpress a small
shiver of trepidation as J.J.'s voice reached her in the front yard, "Marcia!
Please come to the kitchen."
J.J. was bending over the garbage can with the lid in
one hand. "Marcia! Isn't emptying the garbage Wayne's household duty?"
His wife nodded affirmatively.
"Well, the can is full and stinks, and I'm sure it's
too heavy for him to carry out now." He turned to face his wife. "Home law
# 15 states that it must be emptied daily, so he rates a fine, doesn't he?"
Not waiting for a reply, he continued disgustedly, "Also I suppose I'll have
to carry it out for him how."
Marcia smiled at her husband, partly in relief and also
because of his old habit of jumping to conclusions. It was really hard to
teach an old dog new tricks. "Now John, don't be so hasty. I filled most
of that can today from the trash in the garage. The garbage was emptied on
schedule yesterday. And as far as its being too heavy for Wayne, you're right,
as he himself realized. Wayne has already agreed to pay a dollar to Steven
for his help in carrying it out this evening at the regular time for dumping
it. I also heard him contract with Wayne for his assistance in constructing
a small cart of some sort which could be used to wheel the can. He promised
nobody will ever carry it again because he wasn't about to pay Steven all
that extra money (in home dollars)."
Marcia now beamed proudly at her supprised husband as
she continued. "You should have heard them, J.J. They even got into an excited
discussion about the possibilities of going into business together and trying
to market their invention around the neighborhood. They said other families
must be having the same problem and might want to buy such a cart."
J.J.'s mouth hung open in surprise. "I'll be darned!
That System really does work miracles, doesn't it?" You know, Marcia, we
should see what the System can do with their school work. I'm going to suggest
to the Family Council that each 'A' on their report card be worth $10, a
'B' $5, and any 'C' $1 (in home dollars). Also it wouldn't hurt to propose
a home law that would allow one person to collect a dollar from another whenever
incorrect grammar (or a swear word) is heard and then corrected
by the collector."
Marcia nodded appreciatively. "Yes, that's a good idea
and I'll introduce a motion at the next meeting which you can second. That
way the whole family can vote on it. Oh! And by the way." Marcia tried to
smile timidly as she found courage from the System's protection before
continuing, "Would you please sign my expense and fine sheet for yelling
inside the house?"
Much of the rest of the morning went smoothly except
for Susan who seemed to monopolize the telephone. However, no one really
objected since she had spent many hard-earned home dollars for this privilege
which she appeared to enjoy above all others. James attempted to monopolize
the T.V. but his opponents insisted upon an auction which quickly settled
priorities and satisfied everyone.
J.J. answered a knock at the back door and admitted Billy
Brown who had come to play with James. J.J., the old authoritarian habit
still strong in him, reminded James not to get dirty and that he must be
ready to leave the house for church not later that 10:15.
Once again, J.J. had only nicely bcome involved with
the newspaper when sounds of an argument arose from James's bedroom. He sighed
with weariness as he hurried to the doorway. "Well, what's the trouble
now?"
"Billy won't pick up his share of the toys," James exclaimed
angrily, "and I don't want to be fined for a messy room."
J.J. looked around and agreed that the need was acute;
toys were everywhere. "Well, James, your friends and your toys are your
responsibility. How you handle it is solely up to you, but if either of you
disturb the family, James must pay for it. You and I can't force Billy to
do the right thing, but I'm sure when he thinks about it he will want to
pick up the toys, so that you will want to invited him back another day to
play."
Billy thought about this only a second or two before
beginning to put the toys away.
Around The Town (Again)
At 10:30 sharp, without any urging on Marcia's part,
the children flabbergasted their parents by presenting themselves all cleaned
and dressed for the trip to town.
Marcia was the first to speak with admiration in her
voice, . . . . . .
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